After arriving home from a morning work meeting, that ended up lasting over four hours and sucking the literal life out of me, I just flipped on my favorite local radio station, which is 88.5 FM in the greater Los Angeles area. It is by far the best radio station Hugo and I have ever come across, throughout our life journey in several different states. Great local shows that feature fun and progressive new music, as well as classic tribute hours devoted to the likes of the Beatles, Grateful Dead, and more. If you trust me and click the above link, shows to check out include Americana Matinee and Saturday Morning with the Beatles.
As always, I strayed from my reason for this post with my side thoughts. The meeting drained me to the point that I am sitting on the couch, enjoying a piece of Costa Rican mint chocolate, all while wrapped in my favorite Coyuchi wrapped in a blanket. Mind you, it is only 2:21pm on a Tuesday but I don’t care. After turning the radio on before, I was thankful to have tuned in at that exact moment (right around 2pm) because I got to hear the new Sea Wolf song entitled Fear of Failure. Got me thinkin’, as these things tend to do – I no longer possess a strong fear of failure in life and I have to say, it is a very satisfying realization.
Maybe that isn’t completely true, because we are humans and we all have an inherent fear of true failure in life, at work or in love. But I guess what I mean is this – I have reached a point both personally and professionally where I feel like I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. It might also have to do with the fact that I am ready to transition into a new career, so the thought of saying the wrong thing at my work meetings, pissing someone off or messing something up to the point of no redemption (which is incredibly difficult, if not nearly impossible in my government-run line of work), doesn’t frighten me in the least. In fact, I might welcome it! I also have a sense of comfort and confidence in my work ethic and work product, which takes a lot of the fear out of it. I know I can do the job and I know I do it better than a lot of my counterparts, so what should I be afraid of?
Personally, I have no fear either. Hugo and I have reached a momentous point in our marriage, which isn’t characterized by a huge moment in time where we reached “the top” or the successful equivalent. I think we collectively understand, appreciate and respect one another better than most relationships we have ever seen and we find solace in being firmly rooted in the happy and loving nest we are in. There is a warm sense of comfort and peace there, one that doesn’t allow for fear to creep in.
So it was a little ironic when Sea Wolf’s new song came on today because I had to take pause as I connected with the lyrics for a moment, and then quickly realized they don’t resonate with me as much as they used to. While heavy nerves about the impending unknown used to bog me down and tangle my insides, now I notice myself not really giving a shit. I don’t care what anyone else thinks – the only other souls on this earth that phase me are in my house right now (Hugo, Koa and Gunner) and at our family’s houses across the country. Everyone else I can either take or leave…and between you and I, I do a lot of leaving ♥